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Got stress? Get moving!

Posted: Tuesday, March 20, 2007 6:38 PM
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By Gregory Joujon-Roche

 

A big reason many people don’t feel like working out is because they’re preoccupied with their daily problems and weighed down with the lethargy that comes with those problems.

 

But you can physicalize what’s on your mind, and work through it -- and past it. You probably physicalize your emotions all the time, without even being aware of it. For example, when you get off the phone after a difficult business call and you smack your hand on your desk, that’s physicalizing your emotions.

 

In fact, it’s virtually impossible not to physicalize your emotions, because the mind and body are inseparable. The body almost always responds to what’s going on in the mind, in one way or another. Too often, though, the way it responds to negative emotions is with subtle tightening and tensing.

 

The classic American way to get rid of this accumulated tension at the end of the day is to drink it away during a happy hour, eat it away during dinner, numb it away in front of the television -- or a combination of all three.

 

Why not let exercise help? Simple stretching can get rid of a lot of pent-up emotion, especially if you stretch your neck and shoulders, where tension loves to live.

 

Then when it comes time to work out -- watch out, world! Now you can get cathartic in a big way. And it’s going to feel good.

 

To physicalize your emotions during a workout, you should focus intently on your anger, frustration, boredom -- whatever’s got you down -- and then beat it up. You’ll be amazed at how much better you’ll feel in a shockingly short time.

 

Some types of exercise are better for stress release than others. The best kind, for most people, are the exercises that safely mimic fighting, such as the martial arts. A few kicks and punches are great for releasing your emotions in a healthy way.

 

It can also feel great to do some rugged outdoor work, such as splitting firewood, pulling up weeds, digging or hammering. Even just jogging or running can let off a tremendous amount of steam.

 

When you physicalize your emotions, a funny thing will happen: You’ll have more energy after you work out than you did before. It takes a lot of energy to hold in feelings.

 

When you begin your workout, just drop your negative emotions. You have that power. You can check them at the door, and enter into a world that’s free from your ordinary worries. Doing this is just a matter of willpower.

 

Your workout can become your own daily oasis.

 

*Adapted from "One Body, One Life" by Gregory Joujon-Roche.

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I started walking 4.8 miles (6 times around the mall) daily back in December and I feel great. It's helped my arthritis and stress, lowered my blood pressure and caused me to lose weight. I am 51 years old and had been rather sedentary for several years before starting a regular walking routine again. I feel better emotionally and am not nearly as angry and anxious as I had been.
I have always despised working out in a traditional gym. My family and I took up Tae Kwon Do last summer and I have enjoyed it very much and have lost between 10 and 20 pounds without much, if any, true dieting.  Sure beats crowded smelly gyms.
I have bought a punchbag and kick it when i get stressed at home it has helped me tremendously and I feel great.
I am sole caregiver to my bipolar husband and we live an extremely isolated life.  Both children live abroad.  The stress is unimaginable and makes me put on weight.  
I also have ostearthritis, generalized osteopenia and bad knees and back.  
I am diabetic and have suffered one silent heart attack in my post-menopausal days.  My physician has advised me to reduce my stress leves, seriously.  Much as I try with yogic breathing and meditation, thre benefits cannot be sustained due to the nature of my situation.
Please help me.
Baghi...I don't know what friends or other resources you have available in Bangalore, India. However, if you can find someone to watch your husband for an hour a day or every other day you can use that time to get out of the house to at least do some walking. If nothing else at least take some water and a piece of fruit and get out to do some deep breathing and try to release some of the tension. You DO DESERVE it.
Bhagi: When you go for your walk and have done some breathing,take a bible w/you  and read Psalm 91. It has given me much strength and comfort in my darkest moments. I know you will find it powerfull and effective. If you do not have a bible you can contact  : contacts@cbnindia.org
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I can't imagine anybody not walking or swimming for that matter! For me, well they keep me sane. That is they help me cope with so much stress. The glow on your face after a brisk early morning walk or swim is the best beauty therapy.
I work out in the gym and used to do the treadmill but got bored and now do the eliptical, every other day, using one with arms one day and one with out arms another day. My knees are starting to hurt. Help?
I write, started 11 years ago when my soul mate died suddenly while i was planing our wedding.  I found putting down how I felt that day and end the end of each story writing my dreams of a beautiful day got me from there to here now. I now am a happy person helping ours to cope with what life offers you and turning it into something good.  Each of us will go through life ups and downs, it is what we learn from it that makes our lives wonderful.  You will be able to look back so years from now and see where you are now and how far you have come to a much happier person. I do not say your life will change overnight, but it will improve and as you feel and see that, you will begin to feel better about your life.  I also give myself permission once a week an half hour to take a long bubble bath with candles and just relax.  Hope I have said something to help you along the way to happiness.
I agree about working out your stress. You can handle your situation in a relaxed mind because your body is relaxed. Exercising also helps with energy through the day. I also sleep sound. I have hypothyroid and need to keep upbeat because I work, go to college and also in my internship program for med. school. I am 47 years old and I have no time to shut down. Keeping a clear mind and staying healthy is a plus.
i cant imagine not excersizing. it lets u think things through, focus on the positive, just get away, and at the same time i stay fit,which makes me feel even better bout myself. i would go insane without my morninng run with the sun in your face i feel like reborn every day.
I was recently diagnosed as pre-diabetic and was told to get moving with improved diet and exercise, or I was looking at Type 2 diabetes inside of 3 years. That's all the motivation I needed. I am now back in the gym, eating much better and checking my blood glucose levels to make sure I am staying on track.

I find that exercise's added benefit of reducing stress makes the it a new-found friend after years of sedentary life, working at a stressful desk job.

My diagnosis was the best thing that's happened to me in along time.
I have high cholesterol, which is scary enough to cause me stress. I can't take lipitor, but my doctor told me to control it with diet and vitamins and exercise. So what exercise can I do that won't get snowed out or rained out or get too boring? I've started dancing. I do 30 minutes every morning, first thing. I just put on some music I enjoy and get myself going. I'm losing weight, feel much more energetic, and will have my cholesterol tested again in a couple of weeks. I love the dancing so it doesn't even feel like a workout, but my heart rate gets up there and my muscles know it afterward. It's so much fun and the equipment needed is minimal, too. :)
I joined a Kickboxing/Padfighting class. I must say that challenging workout makes me feel 1000x better after a stressed out day. I go only twice a week and it makes all the difference in the world. I have an office/desk job and this keeps me active and fit. Plus, running the other 2 days of the week help as well.
Bhgi,
I once had a dog who brought out the same reaction for me. It would just rip apart my happy home, I got rid of the dog.  Maybe you should get rid of yours.
Bhgi,
I once had a dog who brought out the same reaction for me. It would just rip apart my happy home, I got rid of the dog.  Maybe you should get rid of yours.
I am now trying to train two dogs to heel and walk in a polite way during early morning walks. It gets to be ridiculous as I'm not fully awake, they are pulling on me when they see squirrels, and all I get is angry. Like: "QUIT IT!" So, I've decided to take the dogs to obedience class, and then to walk them in the evening when I am a LOT more awake and have more grace for teaching super large dogs to be polite. :)
And NOW (finally) after reading this article, I'm ready to read about the specifics of what and how to get back into a regular exercising modus. I will consciously design some of my workout to deal with sadnesses and some for angers and frustrations. I'll schedule timeframes or exercises for specific issues. Maybe I'll even wear wrist weights while I do housework. And I wonder how quick it'll be till I'm hopping tunstiles and getting that train.  : )
I have taught Tae Kwon Do, Shaolin Kung Fu, Tai Chi and other martial arts for over 35 years. I can state that they are great stress reducers. Tai Chi is  beneficial for all ages. I have taught Tai Chi to students in their eighties and I can see benefits from this discipline. Younger students who have ADD and ADHD seem to benefit from Tae Kwon Do and Shaolin Kung Fu.
To the lady in the picture:  you're dropping your left, badly.
This article is so true because when I lived with my grandparents, I'd get mad at them because they were smothering me or for whatever reason and so I would go outside and bike ride and it helped me a lot. It built up my strength, speed, and I think my core. And like this article said, it gave me more energy. I even got to the point where I was racing cars on a 35 mile per hour highway and I was only about 12 or 13 years old at the time.
I could not agree more with this! Exercising totally defeats stress--I think it saved me. I was studying for the bar exam when the man I was going to marry was killed in combat...and that was before his other 2 girlfriends came forward! I started running and haven't looked back. I don't get migraines, tension headaches or stomach acid when I'm stressed anymore. My blood pressure is low, so is my cholesterol. I haven't been sick (even a cold) in over 2 years and I sleep better now -- well, if sleeping 5 hours straight is good (but I'm well rested now).

To the dog people...I completely understand. My dog is smart but stubborn. He now runs with me...though after 10 miles he'll still want to go and I don't have the energy to keep him on a short leash. :-)
Could Pheonix, Arizona seriously suggest that Bagi get rid of her husband in the same manner one would get rid of a dog.  First of all getting rid of a dog is an abhorent act, they end up in shelters where they are put to sleep if no one else adopts them.  It may be excusable if you adopted an abandoned dog and it just did not work out, however it is even more abhorent if you bought the dog from a store or a breeder. Second, suggesting to Bagi that she dump her husband is in no way productive nor responsive to her request, which was for ways she can cope with the stress she has.  We cannot run away from our stress in every situation, especially when it is the wrong thing to do.  In some instances you have to look out for number one, however, if the tables were turned and Bagi needed that attention she gives her husband do you think she would like to be dumped in the manner you are suggesting? It just seems callous to suggest that Bagi the preventing herself from being happy because she has not dumped her husband in the same cavalier manner that one would get rid of a pesky pet.  
It can many times become problematic to split up the superior dog kennels text from the abominable.


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